When people mistreat us, they are actually helping us become stronger. Everything happens for a reason and any negative things we go through are not in vain. People wait for you to act bitter and nasty during an ugly situation. If you come through it better than you went into it, that’s hard for people to handle. So, the next time someone does you wrong or you recover from a set back, don’t worry about getting revenge. Just tell them thank you and move on.
The old saying “killing them with kindness” really works. People show us how they feel about us through their actions. Regardless of how they feel, you teach people how to treat you based on your reactions. Don’t react to life based on what people expect. It only hurts you in the long run.